Thursday, April 26, 2012

Life Lesson { for my kids someday}

Other’s Faults are Our Own

It is easy to pick fault with other people. In fact, often we gain a subtle enjoyment from highlighting the faults of others. If we are truly honest, however, we will see that when we criticize other people we actually have the very same weakness ourselves. Perhaps we may not make this mistake quite as frequently or as badly, but we still share it to some extent.
A funny example is how frequently people will say things like, “X is such a terrible gossip, he’s always negative and criticizing other people.” We say things like this; but ironically, we are doing exactly what we are criticizing them for! Another interesting point is that often people who grow to dislike each other are often very similar. The faults and personality traits we can’t stand in other people, are often traits of our own personality. I’m sure you can think of two people who dislike each other, but share many similarities in habits and personalities.

http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/things-we-hate-to-admit/

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Robert Velasquez Jr. said...

It is often said, "It takes one to know one." So true. We find those faults easily because we know what we are looking for. Like you said, we often share the same weaknesses in ourselves. We don't like to criticize or dislike ourselves because, honestly, we don't like having fault within us so we choose to project our dislikes towards others. It's a way to justify ourselves I think.
"My sin nature isn't as bad as theirs!"
I have four kids of my own and i know the struggle in encouraging good traits vs unhealthy ones. Thank you for this post! I'm glad I found this. Got me thinking in a positive way.